Here’s a pretty common conversation at my house. I walk in
the door, and one of the kids says to me, “Hey dad, check out this YouTube
video. It is hilarious!” I say, “OK, show it to me.” They show it to me, and
they proceed to ROTFL – I now know that this means “roll on the floor
laughing.” But I am not rolling. I’m not laughing. They look at me like they’re
thinking, “Maybe we better check dad’s pulse.” And I say, “I don’t get it.” So,
bless their hearts, my poor children go to great lengths to try to explain it
to me. And I say, “Let me get this straight,” and I rehearse their explanation.
They say, “Right, that’s it!” And I say, “I still don’t get it.” That’s pretty
common – several times a week. Pray for my kids. They’ve got a tragically unhip
dad who just doesn’t get it. It’s pretty awkward sometimes, when you are the
only one who doesn’t get it. I get some affirmation when Donia comes in and
says, “Yeah, I didn’t get it either.” And the kids just look at us with
confusion – sometimes with their jaw dropped, like, “Man, you guys are just
hopeless.”
What does that have to do with this text of Scripture?
Probably nothing, I just thought you might like to know what goes on at our
house. No, I think there’s some parallel. You see, Jesus was constantly
surrounded by people who just didn’t get it! I know we have these Bibles with
pictures in them for kids, but I’m not sure how accurate the pictures are. I
think if they were accurate, then on about every other page in the Gospels,
there would be a picture of Jesus with His jaw on the ground and a puzzled look
on his face, and a little thought bubble popping out of His head saying, “How
can they not get it!” Even the people who ought to know Him best didn’t get it!
Here in this passage that we have read, we have a conversation between Jesus
and His brothers. They didn’t get Jesus. They couldn’t figure Him out. In fact,
on one occasion, recorded in Mark 3, when Jesus was teaching and a huge crowd
of people were flocking to Him, Mark says that “His mother and His brothers”
came “to take custody of Him; for they were saying, ‘He has lost His senses’”
(Mk 3:21, 31). They just didn’t get Him! They thought He was crazy. What was
the problem? Why didn’t they get it? John gives us the answer here in verse 5:
“Not even His brothers were believing in Him.” They didn’t get it because they
didn’t believe in Him. Do you have family or friends that know you really well,
but think, you know, that maybe you’re a little cuckoo? They’re worried that
you’ve gone off the deep end and become some kind of Jesus freak. They don’t
get it. Well, what’s the problem? They don’t believe in Him! Jesus can relate
to that. He faced the same thing.
Sometimes we get this sentimental idea that, once upon a
time, long ago, the world was full of people who believed in Jesus. That’s just
not true. Followers of Jesus have never been in the majority. The world has
always been filled with unbelieving people who just didn’t get it. It’s not a new
thing. But it was into this world, and for
this world, that Jesus came. He came to rescue us from this fallen and
unbelieving world. But the world, by and large, doesn’t get it. They can’t
figure Him out, and they think they’ve got to figure Him out before they can
believe in Him. But, unless they believe in Him, they will never figure Him
out. So, they either reject Him, or they seek to redefine Him, or they just try
to disregard Him, but He just won’t go away! And try as they may, this
unbelieving world just can’t make sense of Him. Why is that? Why can’t the
unbelieving world figure out Jesus? In this conversation with His brothers,
three reasons surface.
I. Jesus doesn’t need the world’s advice (v4)
You know those people, don’t you? The chronic “advice-giver.”
You are telling them about something going on in your life, and every time you
stop to take a breath, they’re horning in and saying, “Well, if it were me,
here’s what I would do.” You want to say to them, “Oh yeah, well, it’s not you,
so keep your advice to yourself.” What? You never thought that? Just me, huh?
Interesting. I think these people really want to help, but you know, sometimes
it’s just not helpful. I guess it’s just human nature. I’m guilty of it, and
you probably are sometimes too.
Remember what’s going on with Jesus here. As Chapter 6 comes
to a close, He loses the overwhelming majority of His followers. Because of the
hard truths He has been teaching, John 6:66 says, “many of His disciples
withdrew and were not walking with Him anymore.” There had been a multitude.
How many? Hundreds? Thousands? Maybe, but now few more than the twelve that He
had hand-picked. That all happened around the time of Passover. It’s now time
for the Feast of Booths (also called the Feast of Tabernacles), meaning that
some six months had elapsed. Those followers who abandoned Jesus hadn’t come
back.
Well, Jesus’ brothers saw this, and bless their hearts, they
just can’t resist offering their unsolicited advice. “If it were me, here’s
what I would do.” They were in the midst of making their travel plans for the
Feast, so they suggest to Jesus that He should take advantage of this
opportunity and come along. The Feast of Tabernacles was one of three Jewish
festivals that compelled people to journey to Jerusalem . It was a week-long celebration
that was perhaps the most popular of the Jerusalem
feasts with the largest crowds in attendance. People came from all over the
world. A lot of those people who defected from His circle of followers would be
there, and He’d have a great opportunity to show them that they were wrong to
walk away from Him. The brothers say, “Leave
here and go into Judea , so that Your disciples
also may see Your works which You are doing. For no one does anything in secret
when he himself seeks to be known
publicly. If You do these things, show Yourself to the world.” If He would
just do some miracles there in the middle of the feast, everyone would see it
and believe in Him, and word of Him would spread fast, far and wide.
What’s wrong with this advice, besides, you know, the fact
that Jesus didn’t ask for it? Well for one thing, it’s ignorant advice. They
think the problem is that Jesus’ so-called disciples, the ones that walked
away, didn’t see Him do any miraculous works. Not true. In fact, most of them
had just eaten a meal that He miraculously prepared for 20,000 people from five
loaves of bread and two small fish. Every miracle Jesus ever did was witnessed
by at least some of His followers. That wasn’t the problem. The problem was that
He refused to perform on demand like a circus magician, and that’s the very
thing that Jesus’ brothers are advising Him to do. But, what’s wrong with that?
Do some tricks, draw the crowd, then they can’t help but believe in You, right?
Obviously, it’s not right, for the very people saying this didn’t even believe
in Him. It doesn’t work that way. Jesus turned water into wine in Chapter 2.
His brothers saw this, and they don’t believe. And Jesus He knew that the kind
of belief that it sparked in the crowd there
was not genuine faith (2:23-25). He had just experienced the same thing after
the feeding of the multitude. Jesus knew this would not produce the response He
was seeking. He didn’t need this advice.
Do you ever find yourself wanting to give the Lord advice?
Do you ever want to pull Him aside and say, “Lord, You’re not doing this right.
Listen, if it were me, here’s what I would do.” That kind of thinking is the
fruit of unbelief. I don’t mean that Christians never think this way. We often
do. A year ago this week, I had some very long conversations in prayer with the
Lord in which I was saying to Him, “Listen, Jesus, this thing You are doing, I
think You are doing it wrong, so here’s what I would do if I were You.” For
those of us who follow Him by faith and believe in Him wholeheartedly,
sometimes its just a momentary lapse of faith. We’ve resorted to thinking like
the unbelieving world, for just a moment, or in a specific circumstance. But it
is still unbelieving thinking. The unbelieving world thinks like this all the
time. They don’t get it. They can’t figure Him out. Why won’t He do things the
way I think He ought to? Listen, He doesn’t need our advice! He is God. He
knows what He is doing. We don’t always know what He is doing, and we don’t always
understand what He’s doing or why He’s doing it that way, but that’s our
problem, not His. He doesn’t need my advice to run the universe. And He doesn’t
need unbelievers telling Him their opinion on the matter either.
They say, “Come on Jesus, show Yourself to the world in
power and might, and then they will believe in You!” Does that sound familiar? Can
you think of a time someone else said something like that to Jesus? “Come on
Jesus, if You are the Son of God, turn this stone into bread! Throw Yourself
down off the top of the temple so everyone can see God’s angels keep You from
falling.” Who said that? Satan said that. And what did Jesus say? “You shall
not put the Lord your God to the test!” (Matt 4:3-7). Every attempt to offer
Jesus our unsolicited advice on how He might better do His job is a satanic demonstration
of unbelief. In Ephesians 2, Paul said that those who are dead in their
trespasses and sins walk “according to the course of this world, according to
the prince of the power of the air.” The world and the devil are in agreement
in their thinking. Jesus doesn’t have a clue what He’s doing. What do you
think? Do you agree with them?
Ah, but here’s the thing. He really does know what He’s
doing. They want Him to show Himself to the world. And that is exactly what He
intends to do. He just isn’t going to do it the way they think He should. In
John 12:32, He makes it clear just how He intends to draw the world to Himself.
He said, “And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to
Myself.” Now, I’ve heard countless sermons and even more flippant statements in
worship services in which someone says, “If we lift Jesus up in our praises,
the whole world will be drawn to Him, so let’s lift Him up! Higher! Higher!
Lift Him up!” But that’s not what Jesus meant. What did He mean? Remember in
John 3:14 when He said, “As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even
so must the Son of Man be lifted up.” Was Moses lifting up the serpent to
worship it? No. That serpent that Moses lifted up was impaled upon a pole so
that everyone who looked at it might be healed and saved. Jesus said, “That’s
how I’ve got to be lifted up. Pierced, impaled, stretched out in death so that
the world might be saved.” When Jesus said in John 12 that if He is lifted up
He will draw all men to Himself, John says, “He was saying this to indicate the
kind of death by which He was to die.” He’s going to draw the world to Him, but
not by performing sideshow tricks in a demonstration of raw power. He’s going
to humble Himself to death, even death on a cross. And as He is lifted up on
that cross, He will draw all men to Himself, and every man will have to decide
what to do with Him. Those who believe will say, “My Lord and My God! What
amazing mercy and grace is this that You would undergo this for My sake to bear
My sin so I might go free and be saved?” Those who do not believe look at the
cross and say, “I don’t get it. Why didn’t He just do some more miracles, you
know – more of that bread and fish, more water into wine? He really doesn’t
know what He’s doing, does He? He needs some good advice.” But He doesn’t need
their advice. And until they figure that out, they won’t get it.
That’s not the only reason they don’t get it. The
unbelieving world has to realize that Jesus doesn’t need their advice, but they
also have to realize that …
II. Jesus doesn’t seek the world’s approval (v7)
Believe it or not, I like to be liked. I bet you do too.
Most of us do. There aren’t many people who get up every day and say, “Let’s
see how many people I can make hate me today.” We like the approval we get from
others when they like us. That’s one of the dangers of social networking. We
can start basing our sense of self-worth on how many “Likes” we can collect on
our Facebook status or how many retweets we get. We start to move from enjoying
being “liked” to needing to be liked. And when you need to be liked, you start
compromising on a lot of things and living for the purpose of pleasing others.
Your identity can get lost in all of that. Jesus never experienced that. He was
seeking to save the world (Lk 19:10), but He never sought the approval of the
world.
If you need approval, you have to be very careful what you
say. You have to guard your tongue so that you never say anything that might
offend someone. But the Lord Jesus never hesitated to speak truth, even when He
knew that the truth He spoke would not be well received. Sometimes, the things
He said got Him in trouble. He knew it would. But He said it anyway. And
because He did, the world hated Him; it still does. I don’t want to say that He
doesn’t care that the world hates Him. He does care. He weeps over it. When
Jesus entered unbelieving Jerusalem
on Palm Sunday, Luke 19:41-42 says, “He saw the city and wept over it, saying,
“If you had known in this day, even you, the things which make for peace! But
now they have been hidden from your eyes.” He weeps over the world’s rejection
of Him and the salvation He offers. He cares about this. But when it comes to
the approval of the world, its just that He doesn’t need it.
He says to His brothers, “The world cannot hate you.”
Indeed, it cannot hate them because they are of this world. They fall right in
line with it. In John 15:19, Jesus said, “If you were of the world, the world would
love its own.” A world of people-pleasing, approval-seeking unbelievers cannot
hate its own. But then Jesus tells His brothers that though the world cannot
hate them, “it hates Me.” Why does the world hate Jesus so much? Have you ever
wondered that? Wonder no more. He tells us why here in verse 7. He says, “It
hates Me because I testify of it that its deeds are evil.” In John 3:19, Jesus
says about the world: “This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the
world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were
evil.” He doesn’t say He hates the world because it is evil. He says that the
world hates Him because it is evil, and it hates Him because He has given this
true testimony about the world. So much does the world hate Jesus, that it has
become intent on silencing Him at all costs – even murder. Verse 1 says that
this is the reason that He was walking in Galilee (more literally, “going
about” in Galilee ). Because the Jewish leaders
in Judea were seeking to kill Him. They hated Him and wanted Him dead!
Well, if only Jesus would tone it down a bit, you know, be a
little more sensitive and selective about the things He said, maybe it wouldn’t
be this way. Maybe the world would like Him more and approve of Him more. But that’s
just the thing – He doesn’t need their approval, therefore, He can speak the
truth, even knowing that it will be met with intense, murderous hatred. He is
big enough to shoulder that hatred, and He will bear it all the way to the
cross. They want Him dead, but they don’t have the power to kill Him. He says
in John 10:17-18, “For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down My life so that I may take it again. No one has taken it away from
Me, but I lay it down
on My own initiative. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again.” And He will lay it down on His own authority on
the cross, to bear the weight of their hatred, and the weight of all of the
evil of this unbelieving world, including every sin that you and I have
committed. He doesn’t need the approval of the world. He will die for their
disapproval, under the full approval of His Father in Heaven. And by this
death, this evil, unbelieving world can be saved. There is hope for every evil,
hate-filled, person in this world precisely because Jesus didn’t seek this
world’s approval. Instead, He endured the cross, and by that cross, we can be
rescued from this world. Once we are rescued from it, you can expect that the
world will hate you just like it hated Jesus. He promised that. He says in John
15:18-19, “If the world hates you, you know that it has hated Me before it hated you. If you were of the
world, the world would love its own; but because you are not of the world, but
I chose you out of the world, because of this the world hates you.” But it is
better by far to endure the hatred of the world with the hope of Jesus than to
enjoy the world’s approval without Him. Jesus didn’t need this world’s
approval, and you don’t either. He has the approval of His Father. And you have
that approval because you are in Him
as you cling to Him by faith.
Until the world figures out that Jesus isn’t seeking their
approval, they won’t get it. He doesn’t seek the world’s approval; He doesn’t
need the world’s advice. And finally, …
III. Jesus doesn’t operate by the world’s agenda (vv6, 8-10)
Remember here that Jesus’ brothers have given Him some
unsolicited advice. He should go to Jerusalem
and put on a power-performance at the Festival. He can tag along with them,
they are going, and there’s room in the back seat of the van. Throw his duffel
bag on top with the rest of the luggage and pile in. Road trip! We’ll stop
somewhere for fish tacos. C’mon Jesus, jump in! What’s His response? He says,
“My time is not yet here, but your time is always opportune” (v6). What does
this mean? Essentially what He’s saying is that when you don’t live for the
Lord, you don’t ever have to stop and think about whether it’s the right thing
to do, or the right time to do it. “Your time is always opportune.” You can do
what you want to do, whenever you want to do it. That’s the way the unbelieving
world operates. You want something? Have it now. Have it your way. If it feels
good, do it. Jesus says, “I don’t operate that way. It’s not yet My time to go
to Jerusalem .”
He doesn’t stand in their way. In verse 8, He says, “Go up to the feast
yourselves; I do not go up to this feast because My time has not yet fully
come.” You see, Jesus operates by a totally different agenda than the world
does. For Him, there is an appointed time, set by His Father, for everything.
And He always operates by that agenda.
The world doesn’t get it. Why doesn’t He do this? Why doesn’t He do this now,
instead of later? What does He have to do that thing later? Why can’t He do it
now? He is not bound by the world’s agenda. He is fully committed to His
Father’s agenda, and it seldom coincides with the agenda of the world.
The Father’s agenda determined when Jesus would come into
the world. He came at the turn of the millennium. Things were a bit primitive
back then. No cars, no television, no internet, no Twitter. I mean, if it were
us, we’d probably plan it all out differently. Jesus should wait until 2013 to
come into the world. He could drive around from place to place instead of
walking. He could fly to distant lands and spread His ministry farther that
way. He could have His own TV show, maybe His own network like Oprah does.
That’s it. Jesus needs to do it like Oprah. He could have a Twitter account and
a YouTube page. Man! Just think of how many people He could have reached if He
would have come now, instead of way back then. That’s how the world thinks.
That’s our agenda. That’s not God’s agenda. Paul says in Galatians 4:4 that “in
the fullness of time, God sent forth His Son.” That means that, according to
God’s agenda, Jesus came at the precisely perfect time in human history.
The Father’s agenda determined when Jesus would go to Jerusalem . You see, when
He leaves Galilee , it will be for the last
time. When He gets to Jerusalem ,
things will begin to move dramatically and definitively toward the cross. Why
not just tag along with the family? Because it’s not yet His time. Oh, He will go to Jerusalem . But He’s not going now. And He’s
not going with them. And He’s not going to do what they think He should do. So
they go on without Him, and Jesus stays in Galilee .
For how long? We don’t know. But it wasn’t long. Verse 10 says that when His
brothers had gone up to the feast, then He Himself also went up. Wait a second
– I thought He wasn’t going? No, He just wasn’t going then. He would go when His Father’s agenda compelled Him to go. And
it just did. Maybe it was ten minutes later. Maybe it was a day later. But He
would go when His Father said go, and not a moment sooner or later. And He
would go as the Father’s agenda
determined – “not publicly, but as if, in secret” (v10). That’s not how we
would have done it. We would have gone with the brothers. We would have gone
and put on a show. Not Jesus. He went when
and how His Father’s agenda
determined.
And that is how He will return. I tell you, the other day, I
was watching the news and dealing with some stuff, and I thought, “This would
be a good day for the Lord to return.” I was thinking, “Man, if I was Jesus,
I’d just come back right now and put an end to all of this.” And then the day
came to an end, the clock struck midnight, it was a new day, and Jesus hadn’t
come back. He’s not bound to my calendar. He’s not going to come back when I
think He should. Donia and I have prayed for twelve years for Him to return
before our children become teenagers. We’ve got 7 months left! But that’s our
agenda. I’ve got no good reason to think it’s His. But He’s going to come back.
When? When the Father’s agenda has dictated. Jesus said “of that day and hour
no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father alone”
(Matt 24:36). Don’t you wish you knew? Sure you do. The disciples wanted to
know. In Acts 1, they asked Him. And He said, “It is not for you to know times
or epochs which the Father has fixed by His own authority” (1:7). We know it
will happen, but we don’t know when. The Father has fixed the time, and it
won’t happen a moment sooner or later than that.
The same is true for your life. The Psalmist said, “In Your
book were written all the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there was
not one of them” (Psa 139:16). God has set the agenda. You won’t live a moment
too long or die a moment too soon. Doesn’t seem that way to us when we think
about those we have lost. But that’s our agenda. Jesus doesn’t operate by our
agenda. We don’t know the times. But we know that we have an appointed time.
Hebrews 9:27 says that it is “appointed for men to die once and after this
comes judgment.” You may not know when that appointment is, but you can rest
assured that it is an appointment God will keep. So the question is not, “How
much time do we have?” The question is, “What shall we do with the time we
have?” That’s why the writer of Hebrews said that God has fixed a certain day
and called it “Today,” and says “Today if you hear His voice, do not harden
your hearts” (Heb 4:7). Paul says that the Lord has declared, “‘At the
acceptable time I listened to you, and on the day of salvation I helped you.’
Behold now is the acceptable time, behold now is the day of salvation.” Because
you don’t know when God’s timing is for the events on His agenda, why would you
not take this day that you know that you have and give yourself to Jesus today?
When the disciples asked Jesus, “Is now the time?” He said,
“It’s not for you to know the time, but you
will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you and you will be my
witnesses.” And when He ascended into heaven, and they stood staring into
the sky, angelic messengers said to them, “Why do you stand looking into the
sky? This Jesus, who has been taken up from you into heaven, will come in just
the same way as you have watched Him go into heaven” (Acts 1:6-11). In other
words, “Don’t stand around and wonder about when and how He’s coming back! He’
coming back! He’s given you a job to do between now and then, so go get busy!”
This could be the last day you have. Wouldn’t you want to spend it telling
someone how they can have their sins forgiven and live forever? You may not
know the dates and times of His agenda, but you can live in accordance with His
agenda as you trust in Him and live for Him.
Do you ever get disappointed that Jesus doesn’t seem to be
concerned about your calendar or your agenda? I do. But as I have walked with
Him, I have come to understand that He is never late, and never early, but
always right on time. How could He be anything other than right on time? He
doesn’t operate by this world’s agenda. He operates by His Father’s perfect
agenda.
There are so many who just don’t get it. They can’t seem to
wrap their brains around the fact that Jesus doesn’t need the world’s advice;
He doesn’t seek the world’s approval; He doesn’t operate by the world’s agenda.
Do you know anybody who just doesn’t get it? Jesus knew a lot of them. He was
surrounded by them. His own brothers didn’t get it. But can I give you a
spoiler about the rest of the story? One day, they finally got it. Paul tells
us that when Jesus rose from the dead and made appearances to people, one of
the people He made an appearance to was James, the brother of the Lord (1 Cor
15:7). I wonder what they talked about? I don’t know, but maybe something like
this: Jesus might have said, “James, now do you see why I didn’t need your
advice? Now do you understand why I didn’t need the world’s approval? Now do
you understand why I don’t operate by this world’s agenda?” And I can just hear
James saying, “Okay. Now I get it.” James and the rest of His brothers came
around to believe in Jesus, their brother, but moreover their Lord. We find
them gathered with the church in Acts 1:14. Two of them, James and Jude, wrote
letters in our New Testaments. I hope that encourages you. You might have a
brother or sister, a son or daughter, a mother or father, a friend, a coworker,
a neighbor, who doesn’t get it. Don’t give up hope. Their present unbelief does
not have to be a permanent unbelief. Keep praying for them; keep loving them;
keep sharing the word of life with them. You never know if or when God might
touch their hearts and save them. But He knows. And if and when He does, it
won’t be a moment too soon or a moment too late. It will be right on time. And
when that day comes for them, they’ll say, “Now I get it.”
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